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We are not born with courage, but neither are we born
with fear. Maybe some of our fears are brought on by your own experiences, by
what someone has told you, by what you’ve read in the papers. Some fears are
valid, like walking alone in a bad part of town at two o’clock in the morning.
But once you learn to avoid that situation, you won’t need to live in fear of
it.
Fears, even the most basic ones, can totally destroy our
ambitions. Fear can destroy fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if
left unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many enemies lurking
inside us.
Let me tell you about five of the other enemies we face
within. The first enemy that you’ve got to destroy before it destroys you is
indifference. What a tragic disease this is. “Ho-hum, let it slide. I’ll just
drift along.” Here’s one problem with drifting: you can’t drift your way to the
top of the mountain.
The second enemy we face is indecision. Indecision is the
thief of opportunity and enterprise. It will steal your chances for a better
future. Take a sword to this enemy.
The third enemy inside is doubt. Sure, there’s room for
healthy skepticism. You can’t believe everything. But you also can’t let doubt
take over. Many people doubt the past, doubt the future, doubt each other, doubt
the government, doubt the possibilities and doubt the opportunities. Worst of
all, they doubt themselves. I’m telling you, doubt will destroy your life and
your chances of success. It will empty both your bank account and your heart.
Doubt is an enemy. Go after it. Get rid of it.
The forth enemy within is worry. We’ve all got to worry
some. Just don’t let it conquer you. Instead, let it alarm you. Worry can be
useful. If you step off the curb in New York City and a taxi is coming, you’ve
got to worry. But you can’t let worry loose like a mad dog that drives you into
a small corner. Here’s what you’ve got to do with your worries: drive them into
a small corner. Whatever is out to get you, you’ve got to get it. Whatever is
pushing on you, you’ve got to push back.
The fifth interior enemy is over-caution. It is the timid
approach to life. Timidity is not a virtue; it’s an illness. If you let it go,
it’ll conquer you. Timid people don’t get promoted. They don’t advance and grow
and become powerful in the marketplace. You’ve go to avoid
over-caution.
Do battle with the enemy. Do battle with your fears.
Build your courage to fight what’s holding you back, what’s keeping you from
your goals and dreams. Be courageous in your life and in your pursuit of the
things you want and the person you want to become.
Author—Jim
Rohn
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